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  1.  
    kurliegirl8484

    So while visiting my parents in Florida I have been honked at twice while running on a main road (this doesn't happen where I live) and both times, I had a slight panic/heart attack.I understand that while some people are just friendly, however, I feel like people in cars need to know if you are honking it means one of two things, first being you want to say hi, second being you are about to run me down. Now my mind hopes for the first, but my body prepares for the latter~ hence the slight panic/heart attack.

     

    I wonder, do people realize once they see me flinch so hard that they have in fact just made my life flash before my eyes? On a positive note, I guess it does get my heart rate up for a split second... always important to see the brighter side of things Tongue out

     

    We should start a campaign: DON'T HONK unless you can read this, in which case swerve cause you're about to run me down... 

    • CommentAuthorFree Memberjadensap
    • CommentTimeJun 7th 2008
     
    jadensap

    lol

     i was just visiting my sister in new jersey and while running i was also honked at and like you my life passed before me also.  i was also pushing my daughter in the stroller so i was super startled!

     

    • CommentAuthorFree Memberchiggy_
    • CommentTimeJun 9th 2008
     
    chiggy_
    I dont really mind the honking much, it doesnt really scare me. What i hate is all the vulgar comments, usually because of my shorts. Things have even been thrown at us before. I guess there is just something about a group of college guys running in tiny shorts that makes people want to throw things.
    • CommentAuthorFree Memberdrkonijn
    • CommentTimeJun 9th 2008
     
    drkonijn
    Last fall we were running past the golf course and we got honked at. I was a bit annoyed about it until I realized that he wasn't honking at us but probably at some golfer teeing off. Last week I withheld the urge as I was running by to yell, "Get in the hole!"
  2.  
    kurliegirl8484
    drkonijn: That's what she said!
    • CommentAuthorFree Memberdrkonijn
    • CommentTimeJun 10th 2008
     
    drkonijn
    And so the subject was changed to Honk if you're horny and moved to the heavy breathers section of the runner's forum.
    • CommentAuthorFree MemberHarbourboy
    • CommentTimeJun 10th 2008
     
    Harbourboy
    What sort of crazy place do you live in?  I have never heard of runners being honked at before.  Are you running in the middle of the road or something?
    • CommentAuthorFree MemberRazor1208
    • CommentTimeJun 10th 2008
     
    Razor1208

    I am so relieved to see that I'm not the only one that this scares to death! It happens all the time where I live, mostly because I run in high traffic areas of Orlando, FL. The worst was when one of those big trucks that people like to jack up, and put AIR HORNS in, yea, he honked at me, and trust me he didn't regret the laugh he had, but I sure did regret the embarassment I felt for jumping like a little girl seeing a frog. Another thing that gets me is my iPod sometimes.....you know that song by buck cherry, "crazy xxxxx"? Yea, well that guy screams soo loud at the begining that there has been times when I don't see it coming and people must get a good laugh at me having a sudden outburst like some invisible person with an invisible whip just whiped me from behind.....than I gain compsure and turn even more red than I already am from this florida heat! ......oh and chiggyxc....you are not alone on the explicits I have received for my short shorts.....my wife and I get a kick out of it though.

    • CommentAuthorFree Memberdrkonijn
    • CommentTimeJun 10th 2008
     
    drkonijn
    Where do you live Harbourboy that you've never heard of being honked at? I've been running off the side of the road and had people going the other direction honk so I could see that they were flipping me off. I try to escape it in the woods and get honked at by geese.
    • CommentAuthorFree MemberLexB
    • CommentTimeJun 10th 2008
     
    LexB

    You should try Canada, I'm in Vancouver and no-one really honks runners. Occasionally when I'm with my running club and we're doing some crazy hill work out or funky stretching/exercises at the side of the road someone's honked passing by. Usually just teenagers. People often gawk at you in a state of disbelief that you appear to be running for fun, but they do that in a relatively quiet and unobtrusive manner where I live! Even builders are pretty well mannered here!

     

    • CommentAuthorFree MemberLexB
    • CommentTimeJun 10th 2008
     
    LexB
    On second thoughts... Maybe it's just that the drivers here don't give you much warning if they are about to run you down!
    • CommentAuthorFree MemberLiquidPig
    • CommentTimeJun 10th 2008
     
    LiquidPig
    I have to say Lex that you may be on to somthing with no Honking in Canada,  I run mainly downtown Toronto, and get little to no honking.  But maybe thats because they are all too busy honking at each other as they cut each other off trying to save 30 seconds on their trips home
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    samownzyofamily
    I get honked at AT LEAST once every time I go running. It's usually in high traffic areas and it doesn't scare me so much because it's most old guys or dudes in trucks being pervs, but it gets really irritating. (I live in Florida as well. Maybe it's a Florida thing? Who knows.)
    • CommentAuthorFree MemberHarbourboy
    • CommentTimeJun 11th 2008
     
    Harbourboy
    I am so glad I don't live anywhere near you guys.  You must have some nutty drivers where you live to want to honk all the time.  I can't remember the last time I even heard a car horn at all, let alone when running.  I can safely say that I have never ever been honked at.  The only time I remember hearing a car horn is when someone swerves or brakes suddenly.
    • CommentAuthorFree Memberbkjprj
    • CommentTimeJun 11th 2008 edited
     
    bkjprj
    HONK!!! I'm am NOT a fan of honking! Try running on a military base in the mornings. Everyday I encounter "honkers"! You'd think I'd get used to it--jumping out of my skin became part of my daily runs. I try to hit some off road trails, but every route will eventually hook up to a main road. I've since moved to Okinawa, Japan where horns are used only to avert danger. So far, so good...
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    kurliegirl8484
    Ok So I started this post because I was at my parent's house... IN FLORIDA... so it must be a Florida thing, but I do live in New York and I still get honked at... but more so in Florida, so now I know if I decide to move, it's not going to be to Flroida, I would die young of a heart attack from the honking.
    • CommentAuthorFree MemberB-Grrrrl
    • CommentTimeJun 12th 2008
     
    B-Grrrrl

    I run in the West Midlands, UK and I get honked on nearly every run always by fellas. And yes I too jump out of my skin!

    I can't decide if it's because they think the sight of my wobbly bum whilst I pound the pavements of Stourbridge is fabulous or repulsive Laughing

    • CommentAuthorFree Memberburgalurg
    • CommentTimeJun 12th 2008
     
    burgalurg

    People in New Jersey don't need much of a reason to honk, so yes, it happens on nearly every run.  It scares the crap out of me every time!  Also, I too get scared by my IPod sometimes!  For some reason, some songs are really low, so I'll turn it up and the next song is always REALLY loud.  Scares me.  LoL!

    KJ

    • CommentAuthorFree Memberjunkie_99
    • CommentTimeJun 12th 2008
     
    junkie_99

    I've yet to be honked at in Tennessee, or North Carolina. I don't often run on busy roads, and the busy roads I run on have sidewalks. Even on the roads with no sidewalks, and no shoulder (I avoid these as much as possible...but these roads are inevitable), I don't get honks.

    Must be a Florida thing...

    • CommentAuthorFree Memberrconway
    • CommentTimeJun 12th 2008
     
    rconway

    I live just outside of Philadelphia, and I get honked out regularly and it also makes me violently flinch.  I've come up with the hypothesis that these people who are honking aren't doing it to be friendly, but because they like to see that flinch.  I've slowly trained myself to flinch less and less with each honker now to the point that i'm somewhat steadfast when i'm honked at just to not give the honker the satisfaction.  does anyone else think these honkers have malicious intent?

     

    • CommentAuthorFree Memberburgalurg
    • CommentTimeJun 12th 2008
     
    burgalurg
    The ones in Jersey definately do.
    • CommentAuthorFree MemberTwoCranes
    • CommentTimeJun 12th 2008
     
    TwoCranes

    I get a lot of honks, too.  I run on roads but not particularly busy ones.  It isn't so bad when it's from a little distance - but when they wait until they're right on top of me it scares me to death!  At least I'm giving someone a good laugh to start their day. 

    Have you ever had someone veer over to the shoulder to scare you?  I swear a guy (scary looking one at that) did that to me yesterday morning.  Came right at me and swerved away at the last second in his gigantic truck.  That was horrifying. 

    • CommentAuthorFree Memberburgalurg
    • CommentTimeJun 12th 2008
     
    burgalurg
    I actually clicked on this to ask the same thing as it just happened to me.  Someone drove ridiculously close to me in a development where there was no lines to stay in and plenty of room to move over to go around me.  The worst part of it all is that I was running with the stroller with my two year old son in it.  Come on people!  Scaring me is one thing, but not when I have my son in the stroller...I would literally kill someone if they hit the stroller....whether my son was hurt or not.  Jerks.
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    AmmoTroop88

    I used to  live in Texas and lived in a new development area and the roads were 4 lanes across with a center turn lane. (very spacious) I'd run on the road at the curb and trucks, because everyone in Texas loves their trucks, used to fly by me, either honk or get right on top of me. I would always run with traffic, thinking that's the way it should be until one day my left arm was clipped by a side view mirror off a truck that is used to hauling trailers. You know the mirrors that stick out further than the stop sign off a school bus. I'd run on the shoulder but if you've ever kicked over a fire ant hill you end up concentrating on the ground in front of you rather than enjoying the run. So I thought I'd try running "against" traffic and what I discovered was few choice drivers who intentially played chicken. Yes, 2000lbs of steel traveling at 60mph vs. 185lbs of "me" traveling at maybe 7mph. Yes, I lost every time. I' couldn't believe the wiley smiles these drivers had on their faces. You can't dream this stuff up. No need to over think this. There's just some spooky people livin out there.

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    rpetreccajr
    There are all types out there on the road. Due to where I live, I have to run on the road, no trails available and mostly no sidewalks. I always run facing traffic so that I can see what the idiots are doing. Some folks are extremely curteous and will swing to the other lane to go by (if there are no cars there) or slow, sometimes even stop until I pass. Then there are the idiots who like to honk or give no room. The ones that honk are usually teens, mostly boys but occasionnaly a group of girls. The folks that ride the white line are often blue hairs who can't see/react to anything on the road. Sometimes they are just jerks who think that only cars belong on the road. I try my best to tip my hat, wave or salute those who move over or slow down for me. It is the least I can do to acknowledge their courtesy. I broke the mirror of a van once who wouldn't get off the white line even with no traffic coming in the opposite direction. The shoulder of the road was about shoulder width and there was a ditch full of water and debris, so I had nowhere to go and put my hand up to keep from getting hit in the face. The mirror bounced off my hand, collpsed into the side of the van and exploded. Driver never even slowed down to see if he had hit me. It used to be worse. Running these same roads in the 70s it was common for cars to swerve towards us as I ran with my track and cross country teams. We ALWAYS carried screwdrivers with flourescent handles with us on runs and held them out to our sides as cars went past. I'm not talking out at arms length, but elbows at about a 15-30 degree angle out. Scraped the paint of a few cars that thought it was funny to play chicken with a bunch of skinny teenage runners.
    • CommentAuthorFree MemberHarbourboy
    • CommentTimeJun 13th 2008
     
    Harbourboy
    You guys need to come and live in NZ.  You get any of that sort of nonsense going on around here.
    • CommentAuthorFree Memberjunkie_99
    • CommentTimeJun 13th 2008
     
    junkie_99

    Ok, after all this reading...I'm wondering....

    Do women get honked at more then men? Just looking  at pictures and names, it seems to be more honks for women then men.

    • CommentAuthorFree MemberTrotters
    • CommentTimeJun 15th 2008
     
    Trotters
    Junkie -99 ; award yourself a diploma - I don't 'Honk' because we English a re SO reserved, but I often say 'Look at the A~~e on that!' when I'm driving past female runners , which is when most blokes in the states would give a blast on their horns; the moral is - find a trail if you're nervous, and find a trail if you're female, nervous, and your rear end is remotely  attractive!
    • CommentAuthorFree MemberNik59
    • CommentTimeJun 15th 2008
     
    Nik59
    Happens a lot to bicyclers as well, which may be worse because most of our honkers are approaching from the rear.  If it is a friend or acquaintance, the next time you talk, just remind them that it isn't a good idea on their part.
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    pete.staehling
    Yes it happens to cyclists all the time.  Since I am a long time cyclist I have learned to tune it out.
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    jauntyrunner
    I get honked at at least once every day.  Yes it is always men that I have seen.  It happens the most when I'm in running shorts.  My under armor shorts that go almost to my knees, although tight, seem to protect me from the honks.  I guess the more bare flesh showing, the more honks?  Who knows.  I'm going to be happy when it gets cool enough to wear tights and a long sleeve shirt.  If my theory is correct, that will mean NO HONKS!